First, I didn't notice when I bought the spice finch, but he/she has LONG claws!! So, I looked up some information online that you could just clip them with a nail clipper, but when I tried to catch the poor guy it was stressfull and hard, so I don't want to repeat that experience...
Does anyone know of any other ways to get his toes clipped?
My second question is about both birds. My brother claims that he witnessed both birds mating, (he describes it as they were in the "position," and flapping their wings.) The zebra finch was top, and I know it's really hard to sex spice finches, so I'm not sure if its a boy or a girl. So my question is, do birds sometimes behave in "homosexual" behaviors? Where they just having a little fun with each other

I would really appreciate some help!