lovezebs lem2bert
The issue being that many of the birds in the pet super stores like PetSmart and PetCo are very young and some of them won't have their full song yet.
So - if you don't see them go pear-shaped, it doesn't mean they're female, they may just be a juvenile male that hasn't yet fully matured.
But if you DO see them go pear-shaped, they are definitely male.
Wish I'd known that to start with. Then nobody would be laying eggs and no one at my house would ever have died of egg-binding.
On the other hand, I got Pyewacket and Molly Brown to start with because Pyewacket was being picked on so much, and Molly Brown was obviously her best bud. I know the PetSmart people thought I was nuts because I watched that cage for at least 3 hours before I went out of there with unlooked-for birds. I only went in there to buy cat food!
Then, after Molly Brown died, and I went to get a new friend for Pye, I again ended up with a rescue bird (Bambi that is) because one of the managers saw me so carefully perusing the society cage for so long, got to talking to me, and decided I would be an extra good bird mommy to poor tail-feather plucked Bambi, who was allegedly female. HAH! Male all the way, and with a permanently bare butt because those feathers have never grown back in (which I sort of expected given that he'd already been seen by a vet and had been in the back room by himself for months already). Oh well. Free bird! What's not to like?
Well there is all that egg-laying. But still.