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Had to downsize big time, but doing OK

Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2017 11:10 pm
by Sheather
Hello forum, I'm still hanging in there. The beginning of this year, my great grandmother died peacefully at home after a very full life of 99 years. I lived with her in the upstairs apartment of her large house, helping to care for her along with my great aunt for nearly three years, and in that time I was able to really get into the bird hobby. I kept a lot of cool birds and learned a lot and had a lot of fun - even got to have an aviary last summer, which Grandma absolutely loved - but I knew that it would not be forever. When Grandma's health began to decline noticeably after Thanksgiving, and everyone kind of knew she probably would not have much longer, I decided it would be best if I started finding homes for some of my collection. At that time, I had six society finches, three zebras, a whydah, 3 canaries, 2 javas, 10 budgies (nine of them aviary birds who weren't friendly but were very beautiful in every color), a breeding pair of tame cockatiels and a friendly ringneck dove bonded to a female cockatiel. Up until a little past Christmas I posted ads, contacted stores, and found people interested in taking most of them. The hardest to give up were my cockatiels, because they were very sweet, but I knew that when Grandma was gone, her house is already willed to be cleaned out and put on the market, and I would be moving in with my parents again for some time, were cockatiels would just be much too disruptive as my father works at night and sleeps by day.

So the bird room, the backyard aviary, and most of the kids won't be part of my life anymore. I have kept five birds which can comfortably be kept in my bedroom for now - a trio of societies including a male from the very first clutch of babies I ever raised three years ago, who is quite tame and very special to me, along with two parakeets, my buddy Sam and a new albino baby boy, Ollie, who I have had for three weeks. Until this week, it was just Ollie - I had rehomed Sam, even though I really didn't want to, because he was very bonded with my cockatiels. But I regretted that immediately, and decided I really wanted a tame budgie again, and when I happened on an injured little baby in the pet store, I couldn't not take it home.

But, well, after two weeks working with this new baby, the woman who adopted Sam ended up bringing him back to me when I admitted that I missed him a lot, and said the male cockatiel was getting pretty jealous of the attention Sam lavished on the female cockatiel and she was worried they might fight. I doubt they would have, as those three were raised together and were always good friends, but I didn't argue. I really missed my Sam and am so happy to have him back in the group. He is very tame.

So now I have Sam again, plus Ollie. Ollie was easy to tame by himself, but now he's following Sam's lead, and I expect him to grow up to be at least almost as tame.

The flock is a lot smaller now, and it won't be a hobby which completely takes over my time (as I liked it to be, really :P ), but I'm not totally leaving it behind. I hope at some point in the future to be able to have a collection like I had again, as it truly was an amazing experience, but for now just a few pets are the most I can manage. So I have to spoil them all the more to make up for it.

Hope everyone is well! Here's some pics of the current guys.

I've had to put my finches in a very small cage, the sort any good finchkeeper would look at and say "oh no", which I would not do if I had any more room! It's 18 x 16 x 16. Super tiny compared to what I like to keep them in, but to make up for it, I let them out for a few hours once or twice a day to burn off energy and fly about the room. I have some big houseplants and vine plants hanging off wall shelving squeezed in here with us so they have a bit of a habitat to explore.

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The budgies have a 30 x 18 flight, which I'd consider acceptable under any conditions. I unfortunately don't have the space for two, and of the two species, the finches seem less uncomfortable cramped in the smaller accommodation.

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Oh! The finches might have some eggs in that nest... :roll: Don't worry - a home is already lined up, if things work out.

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Even with their cage being much bigger, the budgies find the lettuce greener on their neighbor's property.

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Can you find the real birds?

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They see the chickadees in the pine tree in my painting and then go and re-enact the scene themselves (the plant here is a Norfolk Pine - I've had this one as a potted indoor plant for about six years now. It's one of only a portion of my plant collection I've been able to find room for here - I love gardening.)

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Bonding over a meal.

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Re: Had to downsize big time, but doing OK

Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2017 11:40 pm
by Sally
So sorry to hear about your great grandmother, but what a long life she had, and it is wonderful that you were able to spend those last years with her. My grandmother also lived to be 99, though I didn't get to see her, and I do regret that. It is also wonderful that you were able to have that outside aviary for her to enjoy.

We often find times when we have to downsize, but it seems we always find room for at least a few birds. Your Societies should be fine with a smaller cage, as long as they do have some outside time.

Re: Had to downsize big time, but doing OK

Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2017 12:20 am
by lovezebs
Sheather

Well my boy..... :YMHUG:

I'm glad that you've hung on to some of your bird kids and some plants as well, as I know how unhappy you would have been without them.

I hope all works out for the best for you in the future Dylan, and I'm glad that you're staying with us on the Forum.

Re: Had to downsize big time, but doing OK

Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2017 11:09 am
by Babs _Owner
Sheather

You are a wonderful grandson. <3

Re: Had to downsize big time, but doing OK

Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2017 11:26 pm
by Jen
Sheather
I'm so sorry to hear about your great grandma. I know you made her last years such happy ones and I bet she made some wonderful memories for you to cherish forever. Good for you....such a heartwarming post. I'm happy you still have some of your feathered friends with you. Thanks for sharing and happy you are still on the forum!

Re: Had to downsize big time, but doing OK

Posted: Mon Mar 13, 2017 8:22 pm
by Denise
Dylan,
So sorry to hear about your great grandma. 99 years is a long life! I hope she was able to enjoy your birds as much as you do. Good luck to you and your small flock!