Thank you both for your condolences. I utilized a little plastic bowl I’d used for seeds and water for her casket and buried her near all the other creatures I’ve had over the years – fish, frogs, etc.
Fraza: I know the main 2 options when you lose a Zebra are to introduce a new companion or rehome. I will get to that in a moment. And thank you – they really are my pride and joy. Once again more on the pic of them in a moment –
Elana: I do believe they are 4 years + 2-4 months old; I was told they hatched in the summer of 2013.
As far as health concerns, Lesley had an abnormally-shaped chest. I don’t know if you can tell from the picture – she’s the darker of the two birds and closer to the camera – but her upper chest bulged out significantly (look above her right foot). I first noticed this when she was young. Given that she was young and neither sister EVER showed any signs of illness like the ones you mentioned, I just thought it was the way her chest was. Before her passing, she was active, eating/drinking, bathing, "meep"-ing, etc. but she was certainly quiet in the hours leading up to her passing (possibly fluffed up, but the room was still dark because it wasn’t yet the time I usually turn the light on for them so I couldn’t be sure). I monitored her chest and health throughout the years, and I wondered if it was a ruptured air sac because she seemed genuinely unaffected by it in spite of how hard they try to conceal their illnesses. But when it never went away I went back to my original thought it was just how she was born. Now that Lesley is gone, in retrospect, I wonder if it was a (VERY) slow-growing tumor, birth defect, etc. Had I known it was something wrong and not just “the way she was,” I would’ve taken her to the vet in the blink of an eye.
Anyway, about the surviving sister – I have decided, at least for now, that since she is 4 years old (it seems most agree that the avg lifespan is 4 years to upwards of 10) and has lived with me since she was a baby, I am going to hold on to her and spoil her absolutely rotten. I don’t think obtaining a companion finch is ideal because it would be, to use a harsh term, a vicious cycle of replacing deceased birds to keep the survivor happy, and I don’t know if I could handle losing another finch (in addition to the inevitable/eventual passing of Lulu) like that, over and over even if it wasn’t in rapid succession. Rehoming isn’t an option, as not only do I not know anyone in the area who owns zebra finches and could accommodate a finch whose mate died, but I’m
very leery about letting others look after my animals, especially when I’m so close to them. Thus, as I’ve said, I’m going to love on my lone finch and see how she manages. Honestly – I hate saying this – considering her age I’m scared she is not far behind her sister, especially since she, being a creature who keeps a mate for life, has lost her mate and is particularly vulnerable right now to dying of a broken heart.
I want whatever is best for my Lulu and am trying to keep things as “normal” as possible for her – still keeping the foraging box, fresh food and water, the works. I want her to be happy until her own time comes, and I love her so much, just like I did/do her sister.
As far as free-flying, if Lulu gets by and, come what may, she sticks with me, I may try letting her free-fly in my room, supervised of course. She’s quite the little escape artist when it comes to trying to catch her so it’d certainly be interesting to give it a try!
Once again, thank you both for your condolences. I’m going to start a new thread regarding keeping a “widowed” Zebra by herself and maintaining her happiness as best I can, just so as not to clog up this thread. Also, I realize I may be coming across as a bit harsh -- I'm still trying to wrap my head around Lesley's passing...