A tragic day for our family

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A tragic day for our family

Post by finchmix22 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:01 am

:cry: Today, was normal day, or so I thought. I was talking with my children after school and told my daughter to take out "Sonny" our Yellow-Sided Green Cheek Conure. Sonny was only 8 months old today-it is her 8 month birthday. Meanwhile, my son and I were hastily trying to fill out the forms for him to attend his high school youth group retreat, which had a deadline of 5:30 pm tonight. As my son and I were rushing to leave, we ran out the door and I pulled the door to shut it behind me....BUT, I did not realize Sonny, at the same time, was in flight to reach my shoulder! She got her head/neck slammed in the door! We all panicked and I saw her fall to the floor and twitch, then we rushed her to the vet, but she died on the way. We have been crying all day. My children and I keep thinking we'll see Sonny in the bird room, but her cage is empty and sad now. I am not dealing well with her death and my children don't know how to deal with this unexpected, tragic, accident. We keep reviewing the "If only" and "Why didn't I?" statements and praying for a "do over" of this afternoon. [-o< Sadly, Sonny is gone and we left with a huge hole in our hearts and overwhelming sadness at her loss, especially at such a young age. Please pray for my children and myself, as we can't seem to stop crying and weeping over her death. I am crying as I type this post. I have a headache from crying so much. We gave her a special burial and prayed for her, but that is not much comfort when we are so used to her on our shoulders or waking up to her calling for us to let her out. All our love and prayers are for Sonny today and tonight, as we try to sleep so we can get up for school and work tomorrow. Rest in Peace, my sweet, baby, Sonny. I love you so much! We all miss you already. :cry:
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Here she is, when she was enjoying a nap in my hand, about three months ago.
Here she is, when she was enjoying a nap in my hand, about three months ago.
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Post by 30 Seconds to Bob » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:07 am

Very sorry for you and your family. :( I've been through similar pet trajedies with my kids. Time will heal all wounds. Bob
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Post by DanteD716 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:07 am

Oh my Deborah I am so sorry. This made me tear up.. I pray for strength for you and your family [-o< Do not blame yourself. Fly high Sonny.
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Post by nelloyello11 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:16 am

Deborah, I am so sorry to hear this. Your story made me cry too. Please try not to beat yourself up over it. As hard as it is, these things happen, and being hard on yourself for the what-ifs, will only make it harder to heal. I'm sure she had a wonderful, spoiled life as part of your family, and she felt all the love you gave to her. My thoughts are with you all, as you start to heal.
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Re: A tragic day for our family

Post by Sally » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:21 am

Oh Deborah, I was just shocked to read this. :cry: I remember when you had Sonny at the Grapevine mart, and how thrilled you were with her. It took you so long to get a conure, too, so you were so happy to finally have one.

I feel your pain, it is heartbreaking to lose them in an accident. I will be thinking of you in the days ahead. Please call me if you need to talk.
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Re: A tragic day for our family

Post by Dayna » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:38 am

Oh Deborah, I'm so sorry to hear about Sonny. What a horrible tragedy for you and your kids to have to go through. I pray for you and your family to make it through this hard times easily as possible.
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Post by Rispa » Wed Aug 29, 2012 12:49 am

I'm so sorry for you loss. Sonny was loved and well cared for. These freak accidents just happen and we just have to learn from them and be more careful. I hope you won't give up on parrots because of this. I'm not saying go get a new bird tomorrow, just don't give up on parrots. Next year I should have a clutch from the Red Rumps and if you'd like a handfed baby I'll save one for you/your daughter.

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Post by debbie276 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 5:09 am

So very sorry for your loss.
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Post by wellingtoncdm » Wed Aug 29, 2012 5:30 am

So sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Post by dfcauley » Wed Aug 29, 2012 6:04 am

Oh my I am so very sorry! This type of accident is even more difficult to get over when we blame ourselves. It has happened to us all. These little birds are so unpredictable and more so fast. You have to just learn to forgive yourself and know you certainly didn't mean for it to happen. :( :(
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Post by finchmix22 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 7:00 am

Thanks for all the nice and supportive comments. We still can't seem to believe it's real, but this morning when I woke up the finches and her cage was empty, it is still very difficult. At the same time, I am so glad this forum and all of you are here for the support. Thank you so much!
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Post by L in Ontario » Wed Aug 29, 2012 7:04 am

So very sorry to hear about this Deborah. Only time will help... :cry:
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Post by cindy » Wed Aug 29, 2012 7:05 am

Deborah and family, so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. She knew you loved her, she has taken that with her. Try not to be to hard on yourselves, this is a difficult time. The bonds these birds develop with us are so strong and as Donna says unpredictable. I will be thinking of you and the children, sending hugs.

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Post by wilkifam » Wed Aug 29, 2012 8:45 am

Oh Deborah, so sorry!
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Post by Amyrs2880 » Wed Aug 29, 2012 10:10 am

Deborah,
I am so sorry for your and your childrens loss. I'm praying for you guys just remember the great times you had with Sonny.
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