
And, of course, I have a question. I brought the finches home on Saturday and so far they seem to be settling in fairly well during the day - eating, drinking, preening, chattering away to each other, singing (the male), and gradually getting used to my hand coming in to replenish their food etc. I work from home, so I've been spending a few hours in the room with them every day letting them get used to my presence (mostly working on the other side of the room, sometimes coming over to chat with them and replenish their food and water), and I've also been giving them some hours of 'alone time' so they don't feel overwhelmed.
The problem is that every evening from 7pm until it gets dark (which is around 8:45pm where I am), the male finch just goes berserk - flying all over, flinging himself at the bars of the cage and calling at the top of his voice in this really anxious-sounding way. Nothing happens at 7pm that I'm aware of - I don't change my behaviour, the neighbours don't change their behaviour (that I can sense), nothing happens outside - I've no idea how he even knows it's 7pm. He carries on until it's too dark to see, and then he suddenly goes quiet and they both settle down. The female doesn't seem to be having the same problem - she seems a bit stressed out by his behaviour, but she mostly stays out of his way while he freaks out.
I know the pet shop I bought them from closes at 7, so I wondered if there was a part of their bedtime routine that they were missing at my place. I spoke to the bird lady and she explained the full routine to me, and I've been trying to replicate it as closely as possible, but it doesn't seem to have helped. I have the overhead lights off by 7 (although of course it's still light outside) and I leave the room to make sure my presence isn't stressing him out. The cage is in the corner of the room, near a window (which I've taped to prevent drafts) but not directly against the window. The bird lady said I should try covering the window in case there was something out there that was upsetting him, and also told me to put one of the perches as high up as possible at the back of the cage, so he has somewhere to retreat to if he feels unsafe. Neither of those seems to have made any difference.
Does anybody here have any insight into what might be going on with him? Is there anything else you'd suggest that might calm him down? I know some people recommend covering the cage to help their birds settle at night, but they weren't covered at the shop and they got even more distressed when I tried it. I really hate seeing him like this and not knowing how to help him
