My name is Sinan. Though I have been using the info website for a while, this is my first time in the forum. I made a lot of search and found some answers but somehow couldn't find the exact explanation for the situation I wrote below.
We have been sharing our apartment with a pair of red cheeked cordon bleus for the past 6 months

We also placed a nest high above our eyeline so that someday they could nest and lay eggs peacefully. This finally happened roughly 16-17 days ago. At first we saw that they started going and staying in the nest but somehow occasionally the female was chasing the male away.
Later they started taking shifts in the nest so we figured the incubation began. For 2 weeks we didn't do anything to disturb their peace.
But as it past 14 days we got curious and slightly concerned about the situation of the eggs. So we decided to use the phone to check inside briefly. I reached above and tried to film inside which eventually disturbed the female. She fled out and yelled at the male and chased him off.
Things seemed to have turned back to normal shortly after that incident and they continued their shifts. However since yesterday (day 15-16) the fights have increased and I see that both of them leave the nest unattended for short periods. One of them eventually goes back inside. The male also goes in but I feel like they are slightly spooked. The female still stayed in the entire night as usual.
I should also mention that this is their first time laying eggs.
We provide them variety of seeds and fresh egg food, fruit mixes, dry insect & worm mixes etc. I don't see any physical abnormalities in them except the fact that the lady makes 1 huge poop in the mornings

I'm worried if we made anything to scare them and stop parenting.
Please provide me feedback. I tried to check all the posts but if I missed a possible answer then kindly let me know. I will post updates below.
I wish you all fellow finch lovers a great day.