You are ALWAYS going to get conflicting advice because people NEVER 100% agree on ANYTHING.flymouse wrote: I owed birds years ago and had no problem raising them.
I see something more complex going on than bird care going on here. Where is your good confidence you had years ago?
READ, ask questions, then make up your own mind. If the advice you receive is conflicting, that can mean that there ISN'T one answer.
To me, there are two good rules:
If someone takes the time to give you information, thank them. Appreciation goes a long way toward getting future help. But YOU have the responsibility of sorting info out and separating the wheat from the chaff. No one but you can do this.
If someone makes a snarky comment after you have read all you can and made what to you is a sensible rational decision, f them. There is a difference between listening to different opinions, and dealing with people who have extra agendas. Have confidence.